Do & Don't

Do...

• Read ALL our instructions
  It's important that you understand and follow our instructions. Call us if you don't understand them, if it will take a long time to comply, or if you can't do as we instruct.
• Be truthful.
  All the information you give will be checked by us or by the opposing attorney. The truth is easier, faster, and less embarrassing.
• Be confident
  You are in good hands. Your attorneys have the experience and knowledge to get you through this with as little pain and expense as possible.

• Be civil to the opposing party
  In all communications and references, especially in front of your children.

• Keep ALL financial documents you receive
  Keep all pay stubs, bank statements, credit card statements, rent receipts, and utility bills.

Call us IMMEDIATELY if:

• The opposing party threatens harm or abuse to you or your children. Call the police first, then us.
• You are served with any court papers.
• The police become involved.
• You are asked to sign ANYTHING.
• You notice something strange happening to your bank account.
• The opposing party talks about leaving
  the country.

Don't...

• Don't touch the opposing party
  No matter how gentle or innocent, any touch might be construed as violence or harassment when described by the opposing party to a court or police officer.

• Don't leave angry, nasty, sarcastic, or confessional voice messages for the opposing party

• Don't send angry, nasty, sarcastic, or confessional e-mail to the opposing party

• Don't talk to your children about the litigation, finances, or any other details of your case

• Don't "bad mouth" the opposing party, especially where your children can hear or overhear

• Don't take advice from your friends, relatives, neighbors, co-workers, hairdresser, barber, or children
  We are professionals, well-experienced in cases like yours. We know the law and how the court system works. Our advice is going to help get you what you want. Call us and discuss any other suggestions you take seriously. We may agree; more likely, we will save you a lot of anxiety, trouble, and time.

• Don't look disrespectful at hearings and Court appearances
  Justice may be blind, but the Judge isn't. A polite demeanor and neat clothing can't hurt the Judge's opinion of you. Don't overdo it, either; furs and diamonds may well work against you. We're always happy to "audition" outfits when clients are unsure.

• Don't destroy any email you have. Also be aware that any email you send from this day forward must be saved and may be used against you at trial